How to understand a guy's body language. How a man in love behaves: gestures, facial expressions, postures and other non-verbal manifestations Take it easy with the language of a young man
“When you drink good wine, do not ask where it comes from, but an honest person about his religion and origin,” said the great Russian educator Feofan Prokopovich. It remains only to follow the advice of a wise man. Try not to talk about topics such as religious beliefs and relatives. There is nothing wrong with them as such. But some people react in the most unpredictable way even to neutral and positive statements on these topics. Who knows, suddenly your interlocutor is one of them.
"The boss is such a bastard..."
A descendant of English aristocrats and scout Kim Philby believed that statements about his superiors should be listened to with a straight face. In general, there is a golden rule regarding criticism: before you start criticizing someone, you need to ask yourself: can I repeat the same thing publicly, in the press or on television? Think of him every time you want to speak about your leadership.
" Yes, sure!"
Admit it honestly, how many times it has already happened: the bell rang, and then - an offer to move to another position or to another job, or to participate in some new project ... You still don’t really understand what it is about, but from you are demanding an immediate decision. Stop! Never give quick consent to an unexpected proposal. If someone needs you and there is no catch or crime in the offer, then you will be given time to think.
"Well, you're so scary..."
It is rightly said, "the man was too honest to be truly intelligent." Anyone who asks you if he is too fat or boring is hoping to hear, if not a compliment, then at least something comforting. And don't be surprised later when he gets offended by your honest answer. Problematic areas of appearance, mental abilities and character of the interlocutor - these are three points that are better not to evaluate. After all, everything in this world is so relative!
“And I also had such a case…”
As soon as you notice that they stop listening to you or are listening out of obvious politeness, immediately end your monologue! The same is when your story is suddenly interrupted (for example, by a phone call). Do not resume your speech until you are asked to. Believe me, most often the interlocutors do not want this at all.
"Filter the market!"
The way you correspond in ICQ is your purely personal matter. In live communication, it is still better to refrain from slang words and even more so profanity. Your interlocutor does not have to spend time deciphering what you really wanted to tell him.
" What's in a name…"
Even if you tell something extremely interesting, but you never smile during the conversation, consider your efforts in vain. It is important for the interlocutor to know that contact has been established between you. And if you speak with an impassive look, then your counterpart, instead of listening carefully, will begin to think about why you didn’t like him and what’s wrong here. And one more thing: call the interlocutor by name. It is both a tribute and a way to win over a person.
Touch is a non-verbal communication that speaks of the sincerity of intentions much more eloquently than words. If we touch on the most pleasant and diverse tactile signs, then, of course, they all relate to love. For example, if a man likes you, he will always look for an opportunity to touch you once again. But not everyone is able to catch the subtle hints of the body that the partner involuntarily makes.
A man can tell you anything, but only his actions can tell you the most important thing. The body of a person, his movements and facial expressions give out all the ins and outs both about the person himself and about his attitude towards you. We have all heard of “closed postures”, which indicate that a person is not disposed towards you.
Or about powerful signs of dominance, symbols of lies - when the opponent cannot concentrate and look into the eyes. Sometimes, by gestures, we clearly see who is the leader in the pair and who is the follower. And only skillful manipulators who know the meaning of thousands of touch signs are able to play the right emotion. No wonder there is a popular technique in NLP: when you want to convince a person of something, try to lightly and casually touch him.
Psychologists say that with the help of non-verbal means of communication, you can find out about a person even what he carefully tries to hide. The representatives of the stronger sex are usually silent, like partisans, so women have to guess everything on their own. Carefully observe body language - gestures, facial expressions, body position, movements of a man in love. So you can always find out what's going on inside him.
It turns out that there are a great many gestures that symbolize real feelings: the couple’s crossed fingers speak of partnership and sexual compatibility, the interlacing of hands speaks of chemistry between partners, face to face is about true intimacy, and there are hundreds of hugs and kisses that indicate harmony in a couple. varieties. Let's understand everything in order ...
To begin with, some statistics: with the help of words, a person transmits only about 7% of all information, but with the help of non-verbal means of communication - about 55%. The rest, about 38%, are various nuances of sounds: intonation, timbre, voice pitch.
And the famous female intuition, by the way, which we are so proud of, is nothing more than a natural ability to correctly recognize non-verbal signs. This superpower in a woman is inherent in nature so that she can correctly recognize the desires and needs of an infant when he cannot yet “report” his needs. By the way, many long-term couples are able to communicate almost without opening their mouths. It is enough for a husband to see the look of his wife in order to understand that he was guilty of something.
So, what signals, as a rule, give out high feelings of a man:
Eyes
Pupils automatically dilate when we look at someone we like. This is one of the reasons why people say that the eyes never lie. This process is impossible to control, so watch his eyes carefully.
Plus, if he's not already in love with you, a close look directly into his eyes can quickly fix the situation. This tricky technique is called Rubin's grading: try looking at the person you like about 75% of the time you're talking. The brain of a man will react instantly if he likes you too. The fact is that the human brain has the ability to respond to the attentive gaze of an individual of the opposite sex, respectively, we ourselves begin to believe that we are in love, and our brain begins to actively secrete a hormone such as phenylethylamine. This is the chemical brother of amphetamines, it is released by the nervous system when we are very infatuated with another person. It is this hormone that makes our heart beat faster, get excited and blush when we see it. Of course, it is impossible to interest someone with the Ruby gradation if you see that you are not at all attractive to a person, but the technique can be used when you want to increase an already obvious interest in yourself.
And remember that there are three types of gaze: domineering, intimate, and social. If a person looks at the bridge of the nose, you will be uncomfortable, because this is an imperious look. And it is very difficult to lie with such a look - by the way, this is how investigators are taught to look at interrogation. Looks at the nose - it's social, the most comfortable for us. An intimate look is when a person looks directly into the eyes, then slides down and falls below the chin. If an intimate look is returned to you, it means that a high level of trust is established between you. From these views, one can understand the level of intimacy between a man and a woman.
The socks of his feet
If a man is standing or sitting next to a woman he likes, the toes of his feet will always be turned in her direction. He seems to be walking towards her, mentally. Even in a large company it will be noticeable. Watch the legs of men, and you will understand who sympathizes with you.
Hands
If he turned to you with almost his entire body and at the same time your hands are tightly intertwined, then this indicates his desire to be as close as possible. In general, tight palm-palm contact is a sign of the deepest connection.
Gestures and facial expressions
If a man unconsciously copies your facial expressions, movements, gestures, he “mirrors” you. This means his desire (still unconscious, but already expressed) to protect you.
But, to tell the truth, in men, almost all the main gestures are associated with the inguinal region. The more he wants to emphasize his masculinity, the more emphasis on the groin. Here is the whole simple male arsenal of courtship: open knees, scratching, hands near the waist. In general, the guys in this sense are as simple as five cents. The wider at the sight of a woman a man spreads his legs and more often touches his belt on his trousers, the more he likes her as a woman.
active gesticulation
Even if a man begins to tell something about work, then from the outside it will seem to others that he is sharing with you an incredible action that he experienced five minutes ago. After all, his words will accompany various movements with his hands, so he tries to get into the zone of your attention in some way. Therefore, if you notice that a colleague is constantly flickering before your eyes, comes close, tries to help, listens carefully, there is no doubt that he likes you.
Palms
The open palms are the most ancient signal that "I have no weapons, I come in peace." If in a conversation both palms are either relaxed, or when gesticulating a person constantly shows open palms, then he is sincere and friendly with you. But if the interlocutor began to hide his palms in the pockets of his trousers, pressing them tightly to the body - this is most often done by men - this is a signal that, firstly, he no longer wants to participate in the conversation, and secondly, he is bored.
Hand on waist
A man can put his hand very low on the waist or even lower. At first glance, the gesture has an intimate sexual connotation. However, this is actually a display of defensive behavior. He wants to show everyone that you belong to him and that you are more than close.
nostrils
The dilated, flaring nostrils of a man betray his strong sexual interest. He seems to lack air near the woman he loves from the feelings that overwhelm him, and he tries to take a deep breath. He fiddles with some parts of his clothes, for example, twists a button. This nervous gesture suggests that he feels restless and you clearly have a strong influence on him.
Appearance
Eloquent non-verbal gestures also include the obvious desire of a man to look good in front of his beloved woman. He takes care of himself, tries to dress up, keeps his clothes and shoes clean, begins to take an interest in perfume, perhaps signed up for a gym. And all then, to look in front of you in the best possible way.
Behavior in society
Also, a man, in order to win the favor of a woman, tries to be in the spotlight, showing his sharp mind, the ability to tell funny stories or make the audience laugh. He can brag about his recent personal purchases and things, thereby demonstrating his material independence and security, knowing that women first of all choose strong and independent partners.
Men, of course, are great conspirators and never confess their love too soon. They are afraid of becoming vulnerable, weak in the eyes of a woman, they are afraid that they will be rejected - in general, they are afraid of a lot of things. But nevertheless, a woman will still be able to recognize how a man treats her. To do this, you just need to learn how to correctly interpret his gestures and facial expressions - and there will be no secrets left.
Just one important piece of advice: never underestimate men. Often, many of them are well versed in female psychology and can easily use the same weapon against you.
Women always want to know how a particular man feels about her. NLP psychologists say: you don’t need to beat around the bush, guess or ask leading questions, just close observation of the behavior and gestures of a potential chosen one is enough ...
So, what does the body language of a man in love tell us about!
Sight
When talking about the non-verbal behavior of a man in love, they first of all pay attention to his eyes. This is a real mirror of feelings and emotions, they read the true attitude towards oneself.
How does a man look at you? A man in love opens his eyes wide, looking at the object of sympathy, as if he wants to examine every part of his beloved. He looks for a long time, studying, evaluating, admiringly, starting with the face, sliding further along the perimeter of the whole body. This is done unconsciously - this is how the young man visualizes his actions towards you. But if you shoot back with your eyes, the satellite will quickly look away. He, of course, hopes for reciprocity, but this gesture promises that he does not want to be exposed so quickly. If the game repeats again (despite the fact that you noticed interest in your person, he secretly looks at you again), be sure that the young man is interested in you!
In the psychology of communication, there are three types of views: social, domineering and intimate. A man in love looks at a woman exclusively intimately, looking straight into her eyes, as if wanting to get into the very soul. There he is looking for the answer to his innermost questions: “Ready to become mine?”, “Do you trust me?”, “Agree to move to a new level of communication?”.
Pay attention to the eyes of a man, some signs automatically indicate his love:
- dilated pupils (indicate sincere sympathy, desire for rapprochement, sexual desire);
- shine (obtained by the release of the hormone phenylethylamine, which causes us to experience such symptoms in the presence of a pretty person, as if with a fever);
- a change in color (being next to a beloved woman, the eyes become a “whirlpool”, so their color seems darker, richer, as if they were covered with a veil).
In psychology, there is an interesting method that allows you to reveal true sympathy for yourself with the help of a look. To do this, while communicating with a man, do not miss close eye contact with him for a long time. If a person has a crush on you, his brain will definitely respond to your message. You will notice excitement, embarrassment, a rush of blood to the face, uncontrollable facial expressions, etc. Using this technique, it is impossible to rekindle the guy’s feelings if they are not there, but you can see the already existing sympathy!
facial expressions
Facial expressions closely border on eye contact, so pay close attention to a man's face when you are in his line of sight. Eyebrows give up first! In a calm state, they are unshakable, however, having caught a pretty woman, they begin to fly up and down uncontrollably, displaying inner experiences. If a man intentionally raises one eyebrow, this gesture demonstrates a deep interest in a girl!
Love clearly betrays the olfactory organ of a man. Our nose is quite sensitive, so when we are excited, excited, emotionally uplifted, we breathe more often, more intensely, deeper. The nostrils swell at the same time, as if instead of oxygen, a person in love inhales hot air! At the same time, the lips also treacherously dry up, which is why men in love often have to lick them with their tongue. This gesture speaks of a secret desire to kiss a pretty person. We are used to the fact that only women do this in an attempt to seduce a man, but this is a normal physiological need for the presence of an object of adoration.
And, of course, a smile! She begins to play on the lips from the first second that a beloved woman enters the horizons of a man and does not leave until he sees her. And it appears randomly. A man can notice this and change his facial expression, but over time, she resurfaces treacherously. The smile is usually sincere, wide, kind.
Please note: if a man begins to smile from the first word you say (even addressed not to him) - this is a gesture of sincere sympathy! So intuitively he wants to seem more attractive to you!
Gesticulation
Body language is an expression of feelings. With it, you can learn not only about sympathy for yourself, but, in principle, read all the secrets of the human consciousness, since each gesture carries its own message.
Increased attention to the girl is first of all betrayed by the gestures of the hands of a man in love. They are always on the move. If you are discussing something, the companion’s hands actively accompany the conversation, because the guy wants to impress you as much as possible and somehow get into the center of your attention. Open palms will often be shown, this is a gesture of frankness: "I am open to you, trust you, accept you." Relaxed brushes speak of goodwill, sincerity, tenderness. But crossed or hidden hands in a pocket scream that the interlocutor has lost interest in what is happening. If a man begins to nervously fiddle with something in his hands (car keys, key chain, napkin, phone), he wants to end the meeting as soon as possible.
Follow the fingers of the companion, even Z. Freud said that their demonstration displays sexual overtones. Does he show them, highlight them, expose them? If they are actively involved below the waist (putting thumbs behind the belt of trousers, fingers sticking out of pockets, etc.) - a gesture of a clear manifestation of erotic interest, one's authoritarianism, a desire to dominate a partner.
A man in love, at the sight of a woman of interest to him, always monitors his appearance: he straightens his jacket, pulls his collar, tilts his head to look at his shoes, shakes off the dust from his pants.
Pay attention to the legs of the man. To find out if he is in love, look at how he sits and stands in front of you. Firstly, the toes of the shoes will always be facing you, this is a subconscious gesture indicating that the companion is ready to follow the woman. Secondly, look at the ankles of the interlocutor. If he is standing, his legs will be widely spaced in most cases; if he is sitting, his ankles will be crossed. By the way, if a guy is unsure of himself, in an upright position he will need support, for this he will begin to push one leg forward. If you are in company, this leg will indicate the one he has feelings for.
body position
To determine the love of a man, it is enough to look at the pose as a whole and the manifestation of individual parts of the body. But here, in order to clarify, it would be appropriate to take into account the character and self-esteem of the guy.
Self-confident men with all their gestures and external manifestations say: “Look at me, I am the one you need”, “I am strong, brave, courageous, with me you will feel safe.” Representatives of the stronger sex with high self-esteem always “stretch” in front of a woman, wanting to appear taller, straighten their shoulders, put their chest forward, and raise their chin. So they try to please the one they are in love with. Psychologists often compare such chosen ones with peacocks showing off in front of peacocks. The body is always turned towards the beloved, the legs are widely spaced. A firm-standing person demonstrates his confidence and determination.
If the guy is not too confident in himself, he will have his own signs by which you can determine love. His head will be slightly lowered, his posture is stiff, his shoulders are tense, his gestures are sparing. If you stand opposite each other, a man will not be able to stand calmly and evenly. The legs will dance every now and then, change the fulcrum, pick the ground, etc.
If a man can show off his figure to his companion, he will do it with great pleasure. He will play with biceps, bare his torso, demonstrate press cubes, wearing a tight T-shirt. With pleasure, he will help his beloved physically: lift something, move something, catch up with someone, show endurance, etc. Guys who ignore sports will not focus on their appearance, so they pull in their stomachs, wear clothes of universal sizes, active leisure prefer quiet.
touch
Tactile contact is perhaps the most straightforward gesture that indicates a man's sympathy for a woman. The desire to touch a partner always speaks of falling in love, since you only want to feel close to a person who is pleasant to you. What can a girl see? Firstly, the satellite is trying in every possible way to reduce the distance between you. On any occasion: come close to hear your story better (show something “important”), sit closer so that there is enough space for the others at the table, ask something, etc. His goal is to enter your personal space and along the way to evaluate the response to it.
Secondly, pay attention to the guy's hands. A man in love always tries unobtrusively, gently and easily to touch the girl he likes. Remove a mote from your hair, shake off a bug from your shoulder, “accidentally” hurt, support your elbow when descending a slippery porch, put your hand close to yours at a meeting. If you are at the level of a friendly relationship, you can notice constant body movements in your direction: comic pushes, slapping on the cheeks, pinching, hugging, scratching your hair.
If there is something more than friendship between you, but you do not know what exactly a man feels for you, focus on his direct touches. He puts your hand tightly in his - a sign of deep affection, holds you by the waist - demonstrates his importance, touches from behind - always ready to protect, console, support.
Please note: if a guy for some reason is in no hurry to touch, he may show his sympathy in a different way. For example, stroking a glass, phone, table surface, etc. with your finger. These gestures mean that he is set to give your body affection and tenderness, but, due to indecision, he is waiting for an initiative from a companion. If he touches his own face, hair, neck, he is nervous because he cannot openly show his sympathy.
If you want to test a man's feelings, touch him first and evaluate the reaction. The chosen one in love will gladly reciprocate, approval, tenderness. He got the green light, which means he's ready to cross that very line!
Other bright signals that give out a man's love
Gestures and facial expressions of a man in love, his eyes and postures are far from all that can tell you about the feelings of a representative of the stronger sex. There are still subtle signs in non-verbal behavior that betray a warm attitude towards a woman.
- A guy in love subconsciously adopts gestures, body position, breathing speed, the pace of conversation of a girl he likes. If you notice this emotional adjustment, then you are perceived as more than a friend.
- Demonstrate your financial well-being. Once again show off your wrist with an expensive watch, carry a gold-plated pen with you, twirl the latest model phone in your hand, treat your team with expensive delicacies - this whole game is for you if you catch the above-mentioned signals in your direction. This is how loving males behave, who say: “Pay attention to me, you will not be disappointed, I will fulfill your desires.”
- Unusual behavior. Illogical statements, embarrassment, excessive swagger, spontaneity, fussiness, increased activity, etc. If you have known a man for a long time, pay attention to whether he has changed or has always been like that.
- A man in love always tries to impress the lady of the heart with masculine deeds, therefore he often appears in front of his eyes. What you need? Borrow an umbrella, take you home late in the evening, help you get up to the 8th floor, fix the printer, stand up for you in front of a colleague, listen, give good advice? The Knight will always be in the right place at the right time!
- The gait becomes more airy, flying, soaring. The posture is open, the head is raised. So a man demonstrates natural strength, dexterity, grace.
- The voice of a man in love betrays completely and completely. If he is self-confident, the timbre becomes lower than usual, hoarseness may be present, the pace of speech slows down, the voice sounds more courageous and mature. It speaks of lust. If the companion is unsure of himself, on the contrary, the voice will become beyond his control: the timbre will be higher than the present, the speech will be confused, fast, monotonous.
Even people in love have their strange gestures. We are sometimes so clumsy in front of the object of sighing that these features from the outside seem crazy. Have you noticed that in your presence a man performs illogical unconscious movements? For example, straightens an empty wrist (as if it were a watch), unbuttons the top buttons without touching them, loosens the tie, leaving it in the end in the same position, etc.? If you notice these non-verbal gestures, know that the man is trying his best to get your attention!
Do not rush to ridicule or condemn a man for ridiculous displays of love. Non-verbal behavior is an unconscious message that is not amenable to introspection. The more strange gestures in your direction, the more naked the feelings of a person!
Signs of male love are so multifaceted that it is simply inappropriate to evaluate gestures taken out of context. Psychology already contains so many books on non-verbalism that it is possible to determine the true attitude of a man towards himself with his eyes closed. The bestsellers are “Body Language” by A. Pease and B. Pease, “I see right through you. Learn to read a person like a book ”K. Messinger,“ I see what you are thinking ”D. Navarro and M. Karlins,“ How to learn to understand people ”O. Sergeeva and many others. This is indeed a necessary skill in interpersonal communication, because we can avoid mistakes and act on the right conclusions. Study men, know yourself, be happy!
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Did you know that 90% of the communication that takes place between people is non-verbal? This means that we understand most of their phrases and expressions through facial expressions, gestures, hand movements and body position. This means that you can understand a lot about what a man thinks. Even if he hasn't said anything yet. Therefore, information on how to understand a guy’s body language will be useful to you in order to maintain a more comfortable conversation with him and.
Watch him and his eyes
Eyes are one of the best assistants in any conversation. A lot can be determined from them, and even what is on a person’s mind and what he does not want to talk about. Therefore, be sure to look into the guy's eyes when you ask him important questions. When a man finds a girl attractive, he usually looks at her without taking his eyes off her. He can notice her in any company, look, catch your eye, turn away, and then look at you again. These are our human instincts. We keep looking at the things we really like for a long time.
How to use the eyes to determine whether a person is telling the truth or lying
When a guy looks up, then to the left, he is honest in his answers. When he looks up and to the right - and tell a lie. If he looks down and to the right, he uses an internal dialogue. This means that he first thinks well before answering your questions. And when he looks down and to the left - he tries to remember the smell, taste or certain sensations before answering.
How to read a guy's body language with his eyes
When a guy's eyes look away, but not at you, this means that he is trying to get away from the conversation. He's not interested in what you just said. When he tries to avoid direct eye contact, it means that he is a little nervous or scared of something. It's not always bad. But in this case, it is you who will need to lead the conversation. You will need to choose a topic so that the guy and you feel comfortable talking about it.
When his eyes move from side to side, the person is thinking about what to say next, since he has no topics for conversation. In this case, you will again need to take the initiative. When a man's gaze is directed upwards or to the left, it means that he uses the left side of the brain. Which helps us remember names, dates or other significant events. So first of all, watch his eyes. This will make it much easier for you to understand the guy's body language.
How to use body language to determine if a guy likes you?
A man's body language can give you a lot of clues. Here are some of the most popular signs. If his eyes get big when he talks to you, that's a sign he's interested. Our eyes get bigger when we are around people we like. When his eyes look directly into yours, it means that he respects you. Because looking into someone's eyes is a sign of respect and admiration. Many men avoid direct eye contact. Therefore, who is not afraid of this, then you are very lucky.
If a man is in love, he tends to mirror your body language. So if you are sitting together at a table and your legs are straight and pointing towards it. Then he will have the same position of the legs and body. After all, when we like someone or something, we tend to copy it. Even if we do not understand that we are doing it with the help of body language. If his body is directed towards you, this is another sign that he cares about you.
Watch the hands, feet and behavior of a man
Let's talk about how to understand a guy's body language through his hands. If a man's arms are crossed, then he is closed to conversation, and does not have much interest in you. The same applies to crossing the legs. This means that a person is closed in himself. and has no desire to communicate with you. But when you see that a man's legs are wide apart and his hands are down, it means that he is open for dialogue.
If a man often sits next to you, then he is interested in you. Let's say you came with a company to a restaurant. And a man has the opportunity to sit anywhere, but he prefers to sit next to you. This is definitely a manifestation of his interest. If a man tilts his head towards you when you are talking, this is also a sign that he likes you. If you are standing next to him and talking, take a look at his feet. This may seem strange. But when a man is in love with a woman, his feet will point towards her. If not, then his feet will point towards the door. This means that he wants to leave the conversation. We also frequently touch things we like and avoid things we don't. If a man constantly finds a reason to touch you. Whether it's taking your hand, or he can remove the hair from your sweater, then he is definitely in love with you.
Watch his behavior
You can understand a guy's body language by his behavior. When a person sits straight and has an even posture, this means that he is attentive and interested in what you are talking about. And when he leans back or slouches. In this case, he is not fully involved in the conversation, and he is less interested in you. If a guy nods his head while talking, that's a good sign. It means that the guy is following the dialogue and listening to you carefully. But if he has an empty look, and he is lost in words and answers. Then he is clearly bored and wants to leave.
"Love does not love…". When we meet someone with whom we would love to spend the rest of our lives, we want to be sure of mutual feelings. Sometimes a woman is desperately looking for confirmation of her guesses about male love in words, deeds, small signs of attention.
But some representatives of the stronger sex very skillfully hide their emotions and experiences. This may be due to self-doubt (not all men consider themselves irresistible macho), the desire to maintain the image of a cold-blooded business person, alien to violent impulses, or doubts about the appropriateness of the novel right now.
And then the emotional “swings” and mental rushes begin, accompanied by constant fear: what if he is still indifferent to me? But guessing on a camomile is not worth it: there are more reliable ways to check the feelings of a potential partner - body language, which practically does not know how to lie. If at the mere glance of a loved one you are thrown into a fever, and goosebumps run through your body, the following bodily reactions will help determine the degree of his interest in you.
A look of a boa constrictor on a rabbit
If a man keeps looking at you, this does not always indicate the inclinations of a maniac (although psychological thrillers often say otherwise). In life, everything is much simpler: a special sparkle in the eyes and a close study of the face and other parts of the body, facial expressions, gestures, clothes of the interlocutor fully confirm the guess that she is not indifferent to him.
A lover easily follows the object of passion with his eyes even in a crowd, and his gaze often focuses on the lips, regardless of whether you are talking or silent. At the same time, his eyebrows are slightly raised, and the pupils are dilated, which indicates genuine interest.
A bit of nervousness and fussiness
Every man subconsciously wants to look attractive if his chosen one is nearby - this is biologically determined. Remember how a rooster preens in the presence of hens or the mating games of deer: representatives of homo sapiens have not gone so far from them.
Therefore, if an interlocutor of the opposite sex constantly runs his hand through his hair, straightens his tie, fastens or unbuttons his jacket, shakes off invisible dust particles from his clothes, strokes his chin or casually touches you during a conversation, plays with napkins or a cigarette case - something is definitely hidden behind this.
Pose of the conqueror of hearts
If a representative of the strong half of humanity has strong feelings for you, the posture will definitely betray him. Take a closer look at how he sits or stands during a conversation. A man in love turns to you with his whole body as often as possible if you are walking together, and during a conversation in a cafe, he often crosses his legs, and the toe of the shoe is always directed in your direction.
When he wants to tell a woman something confidential, he will definitely lean closer to her. Also typical signs of a love interest are laid back shoulders and protruding chest, hands located on the belt or hips, legs wide apart, the desire to constantly hold on to the belt or put the thumb in it.
You should not doubt the deep feelings of a potential partner if he unconsciously copies your posture and gestures. Thus, he wants to be closer to you and create a special atmosphere of trust.
Cheshire cat smile
With this, everything is simple. In the presence of a loved one, life blooms with new colors, the mood rises, and a smile involuntarily appears on the lips, regardless of the presence of other problems.
Pay attention to the behavior of a man during a conversation: if he is interested in you, he can start joking hilariously, even if a minute before this he had confidentially told a friend about financial or health difficulties. As soon as you appear, a smile from ear to ear no longer leaves his face, and the tone of the conversation becomes positive.
Fantastic facial expressions
When a man sees a woman to whom he is drawn, it is hard not to notice the changes in his facial expressions. In your presence, does a blush appear on his cheeks, his forehead wrinkles in an attempt to come up with an interesting subject for discussion and hold your attention longer, his nostrils flare with hunting excitement?
Congratulations, the likelihood of "chemistry" characteristic of the beginning of a relationship between you is very high.
Body language very rarely deceives, because it manifests itself at the level of the unconscious. So if you notice any of the above, it is quite possible that a happy and harmonious union awaits you soon.
