Why the sister-in-law does not love the daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law and others: who are these people really
- Husband (husband)- a man in relation to a woman with whom he is married
- Wife (wife)- a woman in relation to a man with whom she is married. Married woman.
- father-in-law- wife's father
- mother-in-law- wife's mother
- father-in-law- husband's father
- mother in law- husband's mother
- brother-in-law- Brother husband
- brother-in-law- brother-in-law
- sister-in-law- husband's sister
- brother-in-law- sister-in-law's husband
- sister-in-law- wife's sister
- son-in-law daughter's husband, sister's husband, sister-in-law's husband
- daughter-in-law- the wife of a brother, the wife of a son for his mother, the wife of one brother in relation to the wife of another brother; also used instead of daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law
- daughter-in-law- son's wife in relation to father
- Matchmaker- the father of one of the spouses in relation to the parents of the other
- Svatya- the mother of one of the spouses in relation to the parents of the other
- grandfather (grandfather)- the father of the father or mother.
- Grandmother (grandmother)- the mother of the father or mother.
- Great Uncle- father's or mother's uncle
- Great-aunt- mother's or father's aunt
- Grandson, granddaughter)- son (daughter) of a daughter or son in relation to a grandfather or grandmother. Accordingly, a cousin (granddaughter) is the son (daughter) of a nephew or niece.
- Great-nephew (niece)- grandson (granddaughter) of a brother or sister.
- uncle (uncle, uncle)- the brother of the father or mother, the husband of the aunt.
- Aunt (aunt, aunt)- the sister of the father or mother in relation to the nephews. Uncle's wife in relation to his nephews.
- Nephew niece)- son (daughter) of a brother or sister (relatives, cousins, second cousins). Accordingly, the child of a cousin (sister) is a cousin, a second cousin (sister) is a second cousin.
- One womb (brother, sister)- having a common mother.
- Half-blooded (brother, sister) having a common father but different mothers.
- Consolidated (brother, sister)- being a brother (sister) by stepfather or stepmother.
- Cousin- the son of a native uncle or native aunt.
- Cousin- the daughter of a native uncle or native aunt.
- Second cousin- the son of a great-uncle or great-aunt.
- Second cousin- the daughter of a great-uncle or great-aunt.
- Kum, kuma- godfather and mother in relation to the parents of the godson and to each other.
- Stepfather- mother's husband in relation to her children from another marriage, stepfather.
- Stepmother- father's wife in relation to his children from another marriage, stepmother.
- Stepson- a non-native son of one of the spouses, who is related to the other spouse.
- Stepdaughter- a step-daughter of one of the spouses, coming native to the other spouse.
- Adoptive father (mother)- adopting, adopting someone.
- Adopted son (daughter)- adopted, adopted by someone.
- Adoptive son-in-law (primak)- son-in-law adopted into the wife's family, living in the wife's house.
- Widower A man whose wife has died.
- Widow A woman whose husband has died.
- twin cities- brothers, mostly cousins, friends who happened to help each other out in difficult times.
As soon as society acquired the institution of marriage, a person received a special kind of kinship - non-blood. How to call new relatives - in-laws?
In English, the question is solved simply: the formula is N-in-law, where N is who this person is to a husband or wife: mother-in-law (literally - “mother in law”) - mother-in-law or mother-in-law, son-in-law - son-in-law ... We have a special designation for each relative. Understanding all this, and even more so - remembering - is not easy ... but you need to know! And not only to correctly name new relatives, but also in order to better understand the literary classics - here, for example, F. Dostoevsky: “Fedora says that Aksinya, her sister-in-law, who comes to us, is familiar with the laundress Nastasya” ... what kind of relationship were Aksinya and Fedora?
Everything is very simple: Fedora was married to Aksinya's brother. And to the question "who is the sister-in-law" the answer is very simple: the sister-in-law is the husband's sister. And you are your sister-in-law's daughter-in-law.
In ancient times, this word sounded a little different - “zolva”, only later the suffix -k- stuck to it, indicating either neglect or a negative attitude ... if such a form became common, does it mean that such feelings were constantly expressed?
If we turn to folklore, we will see an unattractive image of the sister-in-law. “It’s better to have four brothers-in-law than one sister-in-law!” - sung in a wedding song. Proverbs with sayings do not lag behind: “Sisters-in-law are beaters, beat their heads”, “Cinderella’s speeches stand with a burp”, “Sister-in-law is a viper’s head”, “Sister-in-law is cunning in tricks”, and even - “Sister-in-law is worse than mother-in-law” (the murderousness of such a characteristic is understandable any married lady!).
However, the "opposite side" is no better. In the Russian folk song “The Baby Came Out,” a girl asks her brother to let her spend the night, her brother would be happy to let her, but -
The daughter-in-law came out, the villain came out:
“So that this guest does not often go to us,
I didn’t go often, I didn’t stay for a long time! ”
And in the Serbian ballad, a chilling soul story:
Not two oaks grew side by side,
Two brothers lived together:
One Pavel, and the other Radula.
And among them is their sister Elitsa.
The brothers loved their sister with all their hearts,
Every kind of mercy was shown to her…
Radula's wife is not worried about this state of affairs - she also had loving brothers - but Pavel's wife is haunted by the fact that her husband loves his sister. To quarrel with relatives, she stops at nothing: she stabs the horse, blaming it on her sister-in-law, then falcon- and finally kills his own child(!). This time, the husband believed his wife and subjected his sister to a terrible execution: he tied him to four horses - and they tore the unfortunate ...
Why such hatred between sister-in-law and daughter-in-law?
To understand this, we will have to travel back to such ancient times, when there was still no custom of exogamy - a ban on marriage with a representative of one's own clan, when the clan was still a "thing in itself", perceiving all strangers as enemies (and even not quite people). How long ago was that? In any case, in the era when Russian epics were taking shape, such a custom (endogamy) was still remembered - although it already caused disgust:
I will raise a son, I will give my daughter for him;
I will raise a daughter, I will give it for a son,
So that the Soloveykin family is not translated, -
declares to Ilya Muromets the Nightingale the Robber.
To give a daughter for a son is, of course, an exaggeration: the ancient family united not only the closest relatives, but also such a “seventh water on jelly” that today even aristocrats do not know such a relationship (so this did not lead to degeneration) - but it was also originally called a brother not only "the son of my parents", but also any "person of the same kind and generation with me." In this sense, the most natural - and for the time being, the only possible - for the girl was the brother.
But now the usual way of life begins to change: instead of marrying sisters - as it has been for centuries - guys bring girls “from outside” into the family ... It is easy to imagine what indignation this caused the “sisters” - “our guys got to other girls!” - and how uncomfortable the young wife felt next to such rivals ... So the hatred of the "villainous daughter-in-law", as well as the machinations of the "sister-in-law-beater" turn out to be the most common female jealousy, which can really become a terrible force ...
But that was a long time ago! And perhaps the vicious tradition should be left in the past. Let us recall Katerina from A. Ostrovsky's drama "Thunderstorm": it turned out to be easier for her to find a common language with her sister-in-law Varvara than with her husband! Making a sister-in-law an accomplice in adultery, of course, is not worth it - but you can definitely make friends with her. In the end, a woman will always understand a woman! And if you make friends with her - you will learn a lot of interesting things about your spouse - she knows him since childhood, and - unlike her mother-in-law - she does not compete with you for his Love.
The relationship between the daughter-in-law and the spouse's relatives in most cases is problematic. There can be many reasons:
- expectations did not match;
- different understanding in the conduct of life;
- character traits;
- discrepancy in life values, upbringing and level of culture.
No matter how the modern world changes, customs and traditions continue to be a part of life in many families of Eastern peoples.
- "The youngest (or only) son should live with his parents."
- “The daughter-in-law is obliged to take full responsibility for the conduct of life and fulfill all the requirements placed on her.”
- "The daughter-in-law becomes part of the family and must distance herself from her parents."
This article is mostly devoted to the issues of disagreement that arise between the daughter-in-law and the sister-in-law (sister-in-law).
Let's look at typical examples.
1. A 25-year-old girl asked for a consultation. At this stage in her life, she lives with her parents. A couple of years ago, her older brother got married and a daughter-in-law appeared in their family. An excerpt from the conversation:
My brother's wife annoys me. Sleep for a long time. The bed may not be cleaned all day. She is not accustomed to cleanliness, she treats cleaning superficially. My parents are silent and say that there is no need to quarrel. You have to be patient. But I can't be silent! That's why I fight with her all the time!
What are your plans?
Help her parents re-educate her and "put her in her place."
What are your plans for your life?
I am working now. I hope to get married soon.
Please note: speaking about her plans, the girl put the re-education of her daughter-in-law in the first place, not realizing that this is a thankless task, and most importantly, not her.
In the course of our work, first of all, we set priorities and focused on her development as a person, and also touched on the topic of women's position in relations with the opposite sex. The girl realized that she was fixated on the wrong topic.
We have worked out a new tactic for building relationships with the daughter-in-law, in which an increase in tone is excluded and an agreement is provided.
The girl had questions:
- "Why don't my parents tell her anything?"
The girl's parents are wise people who understand the customs of their people. Their daughter will go to another family, and they will live with their son's family all their old age. Why would they take destructive steps in this relationship? - “Suddenly my brother becomes henpecked?”
Whether her brother becomes henpecked or not depends solely on what kind of relationship he builds with his wife. He is not a defenseless child who needs to be taken care of. His life is his choice. - "What if she can turn my nephew against me?"
How a girl will pay attention and express love to her nephew, for the most part, depends on his attitude towards his aunt.
When the questions were exhausted and sorted out, the girl said: “On the one hand, I understand her: the child is small, constantly in her arms, she doesn’t get enough sleep ...”. Seeing the situation more broadly, there was also an understanding of the state of another person.
2. This example is related to the conversion of a girl who married a man who lives with her parents and two older sisters.
The context of the situation makes it clear that in the house, in addition to the parents, there are two adult women who at the moment have not developed their own family life. One of them is divorced and has a daughter, the other was not married.
An excerpt from the girl's monologue:
“I hate those two old maids! I initially knew that it would be difficult with them, and decided to immediately show my character and not let myself be offended!
As is clear from the statement, her belligerent attitude laid hostility in the relationship. Although it would be more prudent to ask yourself the question before entering marriage: “Am I ready to become part of this family?”. Next - to realize that the choice to marry a man who lives with a large number of relatives is her own.
A detailed analysis of the current situation in the family revealed the reasons why the spouse's sisters harbored a grudge against their daughter-in-law.
- The girl came home from work, locked herself in the bedroom and did not come down for dinner, explaining that she was tired and had no appetite. In fact, she did not want to look after everyone, serve tea and wash dishes.
- She reacted sharply to the requests of her sister-in-law to participate in any household chores and usually answered: “I can’t now, I’ll do it later.”
Coming to the family to her husband, every girl should be aware that the way of life of these people has been formed over the years, decades, and it is important to learn how to get along with their certain rhythm. Having won trust in the family, the location of relatives, you can gradually make your own changes.
If all the steps taken to establish harmonious relations do not bring results, of course, one cannot remain in the position of a victim. In this case, you need to look for ways to change the situation together with your spouse.
Main rule:
exclude insults and negative emotional statements in relation to the husband's relatives. Be guided by facts and strive for a constructive conversation.
Most of the quarrels and conflicts occur precisely for the reason that some people strive to be true to their principles, while others try to impose their views. In fact, all those who accept new people into life need to be clearly aware that life dimensions and priorities rarely coincide in any cases.
The ability to maintain your own boundaries without destroying others is an important component in a relationship.
Mom in the heart of a husband will always be in the first place, and only then the wife. And the strength of the marriage often depends on how the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law develops. It is not uncommon for disagreements between women to be the cause of the breakup of a family. In this article we will tell you why mothers-in-law do not like daughters-in-law. We will also consider possible solutions to the problem. In addition, the article will present the advice of psychologists and astrologers.
Money
Why mothers-in-law don't like daughters-in-law? After the accomplishment of such a long-awaited event as marriage, a woman acquires not only a husband. Not the last place in the newly formed family should be given to the mother-in-law. And it’s good if mutual understanding and friendship immediately arise between the ladies. But mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if a good relationship did not work out? Let's look at the common causes of strife.
Money has always occupied not the last place in the life of every person. And therefore, if a girl is lower in status than her husband, then we can expect discontent from the mother-in-law. For example, that a girl got married not for love, but because of money, an apartment or residence permit (if the girl is from a small village, and the groom is from a large city). And perhaps the mother of her husband is not so sorry for the money as she is worried about how her friends will look at such a union.
If such a situation has developed, then here you just need to ignore the attacks of the mother-in-law, and for this you will have to stock up on considerable patience. It is best to start building your own career, without the help of your husband.
Some advise giving birth to a child in order to switch the attention of the mother-in-law to him. But this is not always a way out. If a mother has a strong influence on her husband and does not accept her daughter-in-law, then in the future you can lose not only your husband, but also your child.
Or she may begin to take out her negativity on the baby. In this case, the question will already sound differently: "Why do mothers-in-law not love their daughter-in-law and grandchildren?" It is better not to rush to have children until an approach is found to the mother of the spouse.
Other nationality
The reason for the hostility of the mother-in-law may be that the daughter-in-law is of a different nationality. Often women are ready to adamantly honor family traditions and do everything possible to embroil the young. And even more so, they will try to do everything so that there is no mixing of blood and a child is not born.
Then what if the mother-in-law does not love her daughter-in-law because of her nationality? Here you can fight back only by joint efforts with your husband. If possible, it is better to go to another city, since mutual love is unlikely to arise. But such a mother-in-law will succeed in spoiling the nerves of a girl.
Jealousy
Of course, the most obvious reason why mothers-in-law do not like daughters-in-law is jealousy. It is especially pronounced if the son is the only child in the family. And even more so if the mother-in-law was left without a husband. The mother does not want to share her son's love with anyone else. She is afraid of losing his attention and wants to remain in the first place for him. This can be manifested in the fact that the mother-in-law will call her son for a reason and without (she is sick, you need to move the closet, or she just missed you a lot).
In this case, it is better for the daughter-in-law not to try to take the place of the mother in the heart of her husband. Do not interfere with the communication of the mother-in-law with her son, and sometimes it is even better to let them see each other alone. Join their family gradually. Well, if the firstborn is a boy. Then the mother-in-law will switch her love and attention to her grandson. Do not forget to spend all the big holidays with her. Asking your mother-in-law for advice about your husband (for example, what to buy for his birthday, how to cook his favorite dish), joint affairs and chores will help you get closer.
Mother took over the position
When living together, disagreements may arise due to the fact that the husband's mother will take the position of the head and will not allow the daughter-in-law to make decisions in household matters on her own. There are even a number of quotes about a mother-in-law who does not love her daughter-in-law.
There should not be two housewives in the house.
Love for the husband's mother must be measured in kilometers.
Annoying mother-in-law and half the city will not be an obstacle.
Usually the way out of the situation is simple - you need to move out from the mother-in-law. If it is not possible to buy an apartment, then you can rent it. If you are at a distance from each other and do not encroach on the territory of the husband's mother, she may calm down and even try to establish normal family relations. It often happens that the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law got along well with each other, but as soon as they moved in together, scandals began.
Fight for love
The dislike of the mother-in-law may arise as a result of the struggle for who loves the man more. She can pamper him with her favorite pastries, buy him his favorite perfume. She will try by hook or by crook to prove that she is better than her daughter-in-law.
In this case, you must always be one step ahead of the mother-in-law. Anticipate her actions, but you need to act correctly. Do not get ahead of her with a better gift or a delicious cooked dish. On the contrary, it is necessary to show interest, where she bought it, how it is prepared, maybe she needs help, or jointly prepare a surprise for her husband.
Different views on parenting
Quarrels can also arise because of different views on the upbringing of children. Grandmother can both pamper the baby and be too strict with him. To bring up on the same principles as she raised her son.
In order for the mother-in-law to love her daughter-in-law like a daughter, she must be allowed to take part in the upbringing of children. You should not make scandals that children are now completely different and her methods are outdated. On the contrary, ask her for advice or gently make it clear what she is doing wrong. For example, a grandmother strongly wraps up a baby for a walk in warm autumn weather. It is not necessary to remove everything superfluous with screams. It is better when you go out into the street to persuade her to dress as warmly as she wrapped the child. Feeling already on the street that she is hot, and therefore the child, she will agree that the daughter-in-law was right.
The harmful nature of the mother-in-law
The cause of disagreement is often simply the bad and harmful nature of the mother-in-law. If she did not like her daughter-in-law, and she went on the principle (she wants to survive the girl from the family), then she will try to achieve her goal by any means.
Here again there will be only one way out - to leave as far as possible from such a mother-in-law and see her on holidays, and then if she does not try to spoil them. Since it is almost impossible to change an adult.
Mother-in-law thinks her husband is a baby
Mothers-in-law often treat their sons like small children, they will never grow up in their eyes. Therefore, the daughter-in-law is often seen as a barrier to the mother. She is afraid that the girl might offend her child, hurt him. Poor feeding or not treating during illness.
With such a mother-in-law, you can find and even make friends. Since one man is dear to both women, although they love him with different loves. When her son is sick, you need to ask her for advice, ask her to help take care of him. Or when her son is very tired at work, ask for help organizing a quiet outdoor recreation.
Another daughter-in-law
The mother-in-law has already found a daughter-in-law for her son. And he doesn't want to see another girl in her place. She can specifically point out her wife’s shortcomings in front of her son and say that the girl she introduced him to would not allow this. And do so whenever the opportunity arises.
You can try to please your mother-in-law here, trying to correct your shortcomings. But we must remember that the girl did not marry his mother. And, perhaps, it was her shortcomings that attracted her husband (according to the mother-in-law), and by eradicating them, she may become uninteresting for him. The best way out will be patience, you just need to ignore the comments. Over time, the mother-in-law will calm down and accept the girl. And grandchildren will only speed up the process of reconciliation.
Resentment against your mother-in-law
The reason for the hostility of the mother-in-law to the daughter-in-law can also be the fact that in her youth her husband’s mother did not accept her well and offended her in every possible way. She can simply throw out all the resentment accumulated over the years. Or maybe she just decided to take over her daughter-in-law in the same way as her mother-in-law did.
Everything is simple here, you need to remind the mother-in-law of her youth. So that she now takes the place of her daughter-in-law. Perhaps then she would not make the mistakes that her husband's mother made. Usually with such women it is easy to find a common language. And remembering all the insults over a cup of tea, she will not allow everything to happen again.
Age difference
It also happens that between her son and the chosen one there is a big age difference (in any direction). How to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this case? If the daughter-in-law is younger, then she is likely to leave her son because of a young man or will cheat. If a girl is older than her son, then she is not a couple either. This means that there will be no grandchildren, soon she will grow old, and her son will ruin her youth, caring for her.
You can still try to convince the mother-in-law of the sincerity of feelings at first. Show your love for her son and respect for her. But if this does not produce results, then there is no other way out but to move further from the mother-in-law.
Husband's Complaints
It often happens that mothers-in-law, who do not love their daughters-in-law, can be said to have earned their dislike because of the complaints of their husband. For example, the couple quarreled over a trifle (the woman was late at work, just in a bad mood), and the husband immediately runs to complain to his mother. Based on these complaints, the mother-in-law will build her opinion about the daughter-in-law.
The conclusion suggests itself. Of course, you can talk to your husband, make it clear that everything that happens in the family is only their problems and you need to solve them yourself. But if this does not give results, then it is better to part with such a husband. Let him live with his perfect mother.
Immediately ideal relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is not so common. If there is no hostility, then the usual neutrality is initially encountered. Mother-in-law's love still needs to be won. And if there are disagreements, then you need to use your female wisdom and cunning and win the favor of your mother-in-law.
The very first thing to consider when joining a strange family is that you cannot openly condemn your husband in the presence of his mother or her girlfriends. It is better to solve all the problems that have arisen in private without prying eyes.
Remember that a mother will always see a child in her son, even when he is well over 40. You should not push the mother into the background. Indeed, often a man can be judged only by evaluating how he treats his mother. Then it will be possible to safely say whether he can offend a woman or behind his back you can feel like behind a stone wall.
You should definitely listen to the advice of your mother-in-law, even if they are not useful in life or you decide to do your own thing, you should at least listen. Women love to be listened to, and the husband's mother is no exception.
Do not complain to your spouse about his mother, men do not like this, and they can not consciously convey to the mother-in-law the dissatisfaction of the daughter-in-law. This can cause discord in relationships between women.
Sometimes women quarrel because there are no children. If the mother-in-law does not love the daughter-in-law, then the girl, of course, consciously does not give birth to grandchildren or does not allow them to see her grandmother. This is a kind of protest and extremely. It is grandchildren that most often bring women together. Grandmothers sit with them when a woman needs to leave. Yes, and just the mother-in-law loves to pamper the kids, especially since the blood of her beloved son flows in them, and therefore her.
Rapprochement Rules
Important rules that will help you get closer to your mother-in-law:
- show the husband's mother that she is respected and her opinion is valued;
- avoid quarrels with mother-in-law;
- do not tell your husband what you don’t like about his mother, and don’t describe what annoys her;
- in the presence of a husband, ask for advice from his mother, this will strengthen the love of the husband and his mother, it is important not to go too far, to ask for requests infrequently and on business;
- do not discuss the mother-in-law among people who can pass everything on to her or her son;
- find a middle ground in communication: no longer a friend, but also not a close relative;
- live separately from mother-in-law.
So why mothers-in-law don't like daughters-in-law? In the reviews, people write that often these are two women with the same characters (both owners). Or a young girl simply does not yet know how to build the right relationship with her new relative. The above rules will just help to avoid disagreements.
How to understand that the mother-in-law does not love her daughter-in-law, even when she is not familiar with her? In this case, a horoscope comes to the rescue. You should find out who the future relative is according to the sign of the zodiac. The date of birth can tell a lot about a person. And knowing the exemplary nature of the second mother, you can be prepared for surprises in her behavior.
- Aries. These are tough women. They are too emotional. And they can say too much in a fit of anger. Fight for the love of their child. And if she hears something bad about her son from the lips of her daughter-in-law, then war will be declared for life. Her weakness: women love sleep and peace.
- Taurus. They can be called the ideal version of the mother-in-law. They are quite patient and rarely show their feelings for show. And if the husband commits an offense, then the mother-in-law will help correct the situation and save the family. Finding an approach to it is easy. Respect her, love her son and listen to advice.
- Twins. This type of women can be called natural born mothers-in-law. They are very fond of communication and work. Although they like to build serious women out of themselves. By learning to listen to the mother-in-law and giving her the opportunity to cry into the vest, you can win her trust forever.
- Crayfish. These are owners and practical people. Daughters-in-law are rarely taken with hostility, they see them as free maids who will watch over her son. And besides, they give birth to grandchildren, whom they love to unconsciousness. This is their weak point.
- Lions. They are kind of queens. They love to be obeyed. If you show your mother-in-law your respect and often have heart-to-heart conversations, then you can make good friends with her. And if she is also the first to know about the imminent appearance of a grandson or granddaughter, then her heart will be conquered. But this type of woman does not tolerate criticism. Therefore, it is better not to make such mistakes.
- Virgin. Most often, these women are boring and touchy, with their oddities. But it is easy to get along with them. You need to be patient in order not to pay attention to their antics. They love to be praised, but do not accept help. They love cleanliness in the house. So, to avoid conflicts, you need to keep the apartment in order.
- Scales. They easily accept daughters-in-law and can even adapt to their whims. But this type of women is cunning in that they carry all the dirt out of the hut. Therefore, you should not have too frank conversations with her.
- Scorpions. The most dangerous type of mother-in-law. Can humiliate and offend in the presence of strangers and her husband. He will not let his son out from under his wing. It is better to bypass such mothers-in-law or live on from them.
- Sagittarius. A good option for mother-in-law. She is most often self-sufficient, loves work. He will accept his daughter-in-law if he sees her love for her son and prosperity in the family. But he will not tolerate cohabitation with his daughter-in-law.
- Capricorns. They can help a young family on their own, but you can’t wait for financial assistance from them. If necessary, he will always help with practical advice. You can trust her, the information received will not leave the walls of the house. If there is a quarrel, the first will not go to reconciliation. Usually he does not get into family life with his son, although he loves him very much.
- Aquarius. In order to avoid quarrels with the mother-in-law, you need to have great patience. They often change their minds, they like to teach the mind. These are excellent grandmothers, and with the help of grandchildren, you can find an approach to them.
- Fish. Why do not love the daughters-in-law of the mother-in-law-Pisces? These ladies feel people a mile away, they are difficult to deceive. But if a woman likes a girl, then an idyll will be present in the family. She will not interfere in the family life of the young. And from it will be the best grandmother, who will not pamper her grandchildren much, but will give them the necessary and useful information in a dosed manner.
Conclusion
Sometimes it is not difficult to understand that the mother-in-law does not love the daughter-in-law. Although some zodiac signs may not show it in person. But they can't hide their dislike. If a girl is well prepared for her future family life, and she studies the psychology of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then most likely she will be able to find an approach even to the most "fierce" mother-in-law. The most important thing is to live separately, even an ideal relationship can collapse if the mother-in-law lives with a young couple together.
Happy birthday, I congratulate you
My dear daughter-in-law
And I wish you in this life
To not be sad for a single day.
So that my brother loves you very much,
Protected from adversity and problems.
Dressed beautifully and stylishly
And cared, did not offend.
So that dreams will certainly come true
And sometimes would - even with a vengeance.
And so that we stay forever
In a good relationship with you!
You are a wife - what you need,
I'm very happy for my brother
I wish everything in the world
The best woman on the planet:
Laughter, joy and passion,
Women's health, happiness,
Let the house be cozy
Everything will be in abundance in it,
Faithful husband, obedient children,
Beauty is always in bloom!
My dear, I congratulate you on your birthday! My brother is extremely lucky with his wife, although you are like a sister to me! Be loved, desired, charming and beautiful every day of your life!
Happy birthday, daughter-in-law. I wish you a sweet family life and great luck on any path. May all your plans be successfully implemented, may all your good hopes come true, may all your dreams come true soon. I wish you and your loved ones health and peace. Be happy and always be good!
Happy birsday, my dear!
You've been like a sister to me for a long time.
Lucky with his wife brother:
You are beautiful and kind.
I wish to live happily
Keep the purity of the soul.
To find more
Time we for warm meetings.
Lucky sibling
With a sweet, glorious wife.
Happy birsday, my dear,
Just stay like this.
I wish female happiness
Never lose heart.
Well, mischievous brother
Always keep in your fist.
Dear daughter-in-law, accept sincere congratulations from your husband's sister. On your birthday, I want to wish you great happiness and true good luck, eternal love and beauty, peace in the family and understanding, joy in life and great success, good mood and good health.
Congratulations from the sister-in-law
You, daughter-in-law, accept
And a glass of champagne
Fill it up on your birthday.
Like champagne let life
Yours will be easy
My brother may pity you
Protects and loves.
I wish the hearth
You took care of the family
The happiest in the world
To have your family.
Dear sister-in-law, happy birthday to you. I wish you to live in a world of bright colors, beautiful dreams, happy moments, interesting events and great aspirations. May there always be prosperity in the family, may love live forever in the heart.
I am always happy to say to everyone:
You make your brother happy!
I will open the world of wishes,
Congratulate to his wife:
I wish you happiness in your personal life
(So that everything was fine with my brother),
I wish the ocean health
(So the brother will be calmer),
Good luck, well, the sea of \u200b\u200bmoney
(That's it, brother definitely live without grief)!
And if it's simple and without jokes -
Be happy without jokes!
